Friendship

Friendship seems to stock a lot of fine things that cover happiness, dignity, prestige amusement and delight as well as many other feelings which are unable to express in language but heart can recognize. Friendship records sensation what may be described is a divine. To come across a true friend is an easier said than done, none but fortune can help on the issue. Friendship sheds a meaning in what friends to be obsessed with each other, they will continue to friendship in future even after death. A Person is helpless without a real friend. A friend keeps his genuine friend s friendship in deeper corner of the heart with a great passion of love. One relies on dependency on cemented friend while distress falls on one life. What is a friend, a little word but a great power to bind us very strongly? Friend is neither a blood relation nor a relative yet from school to college, university and service arena we are in a trapped in the name of friendship. Friendship bears a paramount importance on human life. Considering its significance, one can assert that witty and intelligence and taking some time should be obligatory before making a friend. In present days women in large numbers are coming into working fields. Mobile and face book user are growing day by day. For these easy social media a scoring numbers of persons hold out their friendship hands to unknown. All hands are excellent to be friendship; an astrologer cannot coincide to this opinion by his supernatural method. Taking care to select a friend what is called is an intelligence effort. Prior to selecting a friend several questions should be come up which are: at first verify mentality- same mentality helps in choosing a friend; relation between friends is mingled with respect; friends have to be respectful to each other; due to this quality friendship is sustainable for long time. An expert advises that friendship stands for mirror of soul. Friendship will have happened among those people who have same mentality and give value to others feelings. Friends in same ages are not a must while friends can be grown up around in different ages having same mindset. So mutual understanding appears to be necessary ahead of making friendship .Friends can have influence over us in various ways; many high-quality works and achievement were made successful by getting fine advice and co-operation from them. Many young person's spoil their life with the bad company of friends. Many of people are implicated them in criminal activities due to shocking friends. Younger generation is fond of friendship; at present face book is a wonderful colossal social media contributing to making friends. One confirms friend who send friend request from home and abroad in face book what is look like dreamland. What is a problem is that many individuals in face book use fake ID for real one, are remained far away from real identification. In this field advice is that one can make friends in face book in largenumber maintaining a justifiable relation but not to cross limit which call for destruction in personal life. In human life proper friends appear to be needed but those have to be gentle, cultural and believable having mentality to share sympathy with others friends distress and sorrow. In all circumstances, friends must be co-operative and faithful. What is a life but a combination of happiness, suffering and grief? Unhappiness and distress are accumulated inside a person. Those feeling can be described only to a bona fide friend. He can eliminate friend griefs by providing solace advice and accessible messages. An important question is that how a person understands a friend is either good or bad. In respond to this, one may understands if he sanctions a number of days with a friend, his appearance, nature, behaviors and performance will give signal to what extent he is awful or excellent. When a friend is wronged once, friend relation would not be broken off immediately without letting him time to understand what his mistake is. As rational time is required in building a friend, similarly friendship cannot be torn off due to trifle reason .Because afterwards a question may appear to your mind that before taking the wrong decision a modest time should have granted